Maybe there is a desire there but buried so deep that it would need the right partner and chemistry to bring it to life. I did have a very athletic girlfriend in the distant past that would enjoy testing her physical abilities against me. Of course, as a submissive, I welcomed that aggression from her and would even aid in my destruction by blindly walking in to an excruciating head scissor that I knew I could not escape from. She enjoyed having me in a vulnerable position and would require a lot of begging and promises prior to my release.
Every now and then, though, the male instinct would kick in and I would get her into a position from which she could not escape. I would pull her panties down and admire her female form for a few minutes, even plant a few kisses, before finishing with a barrage of bare handed swats. She would eventually give up but that was not really what I was after. I was anticipating that there would be further consequences when she turned the table back and I might just be forced to worship the ass that I had just pinked.