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Pussy whipped is a term that is not used much anymore. In my younger days, we used the term to ridicule the guys who were very heavily influenced by their girl friends. I would vehemenently deny it when the accusations flew my way but deep inside, I knew it was what I really desired. Probably so for most of the other guys too. Of course, in those days, the possibilties of actually putting the term in to play seemed pretty remote. If they could only see me now.

I was thinking "Mean Girls" but can see the MTM angle. What guy was not in love with MTM in the 70's?

Some of my favorite people in my favorite city. What is not to love about these pics?

I love logging on and being reminded of what perfection looks like in the female form.

Hi Mistress Kang, I have always admired your business philosophy and am wondering what inspired you. What were your benchmarks? Did you have a mentor or mentors?

I think all of the other dungeons are scratching their heads and saying WTF?

Sounds potentially addictive but I am game.

Does "high maintenance" mean hard to please? My experience is that women who are truly high maintenance by my definition see themselves as low to no maintenance. I would not say that it takes a superior male to handle but certainly an understanding one.

Mistress Zhao, I think you mentioned the secret that lies beyond the confines of the "professional" BDSM relationsip, deeper emotions from both sides.

Sod gets the credit for re-posting this as I missed it the first time around. An act that would be considered distasteful at the least in a vanilla world becomes as Mistress Jung puts it "symbolic" in a dominant / submissive relationship. Whether it is intended by the Mistress as a punishment, humiliation, reward or all of the above, it is truly a symbol of her power over a submissive and strikes at the core of this type of relationship. To read or hear it verbalized so eloquently by a lovely lady only makes it that much hotter and the desire to be on the receiving end that much stronger. Aint to proud to beg....

So for the professional version, it is considered therapy? What about the personal version? Also therapy? Intimacy? It would seem that you would open up much more in a personal relationship than a professional one. I think the secret lies beyond the confines of the professional BDSM relationship. Sorry to keep pressing this topic but I find it fascinating and fairly unexplored. I very much appreciate you candid responses.

For me, there would have to be a Domme in charge and my interactions with other sub limited to playful exchange. It would be a hard limit for me to ever cause pain to a woman regardless of what role she is playing.

I missed this one the first time so thanks for bringing it back. I agree, one of the all time hottest quotes. No chance for a golden shower tonight but I am thinking a cold shower might be necessary.

As usual, I have waited untill the last minute to do tax preparation. Now the weather is beautiful and I am confined to my office going through receipts and crunching numbers (are sessions tax deductible?) . Tax time is a torture I would rather do without. I really need to be smacked around by a beautiful Asian Domme a few times a day to keep me as balanced as the books.

The biggest mistake you could make is backing out and never having the experience.

I am curious about something Mistress Zhao. In BDSM relationships that you have successfully guided to another level, how often do live sessions take place on average? I really believe that to achieve another level, you have to establish a comfort zone or trust. That may take time repetition and reinforcement.

My sparse visits are due to logistical issues as I can only participate when I travel. Most of my travel for the past 10 years has been to Asia with stops in Los Angeles along the way. I was fortunate enough to be in Los Angeles last May and was able to experience a session with Mistress Kang. If that is not a psychological experience, I don't know what is. I will make it to NYC this year and hopefully, several times. I am very interested in learning more from you first hand.

This is a very interesting topic but two questions keep coming to mind: 1. Is this really intimacy that we are talking about? 2. What role does sexual arousal play? Many of the same dynamics exist in a BDSM relationship as in a vanilla sex relationship, the latter of which I have much more experience. By the way, if I crave a BDSM relationship and a vanilla relationship, does that make me bi-sexual? The guys in my fantasy football league may not understand.... What about BDSM as foreplay? I think a good smack around and a bit of worship would get the fires stoked better than a bottle of Chinese Viagra (no one told me not take the whole bottle at once). I am asking of those who have experienced this in their personal lives. I have been involved in this scene for a long time but the most I have ever seen one domme was 3 times and that was spread over a 3 year period. Kind of hard to get in to a rythym or a mutual understanding. I guess you could say that I am stunted in my BDSM relationships. I very much want to change that and take a much deeper dive in to the psyche of it. These discussions help bring different thinking to mind and I much appreciate the candor. Until I started reading this forum, I did not think this type of discussion possible. Sk2

Looks like a warm Spring day in NYC today but windy. Do you wear the sundress when the wind is so strong? If there was a large gust, would there still be mystery or would all be revealed?

Happy Birthday, pretty lady.

The incentive to endure is certailnly there. Maybe to the point of concussion and a little beyond. A Mistress Butt-go-round would be the ulitmate ride.

Looking yummy.

I would like to be a fly on that wall.

Thanks for the warm fuzzy. Always ready to play, rarely in a position to. Any chance, you will at Dom Con again?