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On 7/20/2019 at 10:48 PM, Mistress Zora Jin said:
When dommes are happy, good things happen ???
But what happens when you're not happy? ...
Well yeah, of course , there's that ?.?
But what i mean is ... what if you just wake up in a bad or sad mood, or with a migraine? .. Do you take that to the office with you? ...and god help today's clients, regardless of how hard they try to please you.
Or are you able to put it aside for a few hours and be your usual professional self?
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On 8/11/2019 at 2:19 PM, Mistress Zora Jin said:
A lot of BDSM porn inspires subs to try different activities. What activities have you guys tried because you watched it and thought it was super hot, but didn't like it when you actually did it in real life?
16 hours ago, Jayman said:The most important thing for me though is the Mistresses attitude.
Lately, the only porn that will consistently arouse me is watching a sub or a slave in restraints being punished with almost any implement... strap, lash, crop, whip and even cane... but i find i'm most affected by the extreme force of the blows and the facial expressions of the Mistress as they are being administered .. Be it hate or caring, anger or joy, amusement or disdain ... sometimes it's undeniably real, and not an act. Watching and reading the face of the Mistress as she works is my greatest turn on.
While i have many other kinks i crave restraint and punishment and have experienced quite a few strokes at my last session, but i know i wouldn't be able to endure the severe beatings being administered on porn.
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On 7/27/2019 at 1:02 AM, chocotaco said:
Also, shoutout to Mistress Kang, who made my overall experience flow very smoothly. She responded to my emails with lightning speed (literally 5 minutes) and was very helpful during the whole process.
i've always contacted Ms. Emma with questions or problems .. and while there has been a time or two that i would have appreciated her counsel, I never thought to email Ms. Kang directly.
It just seemed to me to be somewhat presumptuous.
Hope this is not opening a door to a sticky topic.
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9 hours ago, Mistress Kang said:
Pick something out for the blindfold, it'll be nice for you to have something that you know works perfectly for you. If you don't find anything in mesh or lace, maybe look for blindfolds with pinholes.
We have noise cancelling headphones and disposable ear plugs that can be used at the same time!
Thanks for your help and advise with this.
I've ordered something inexpensive in a black lace just to see how it will work .. but it looks kinda sissy. (Might have to get some undies to match.)
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10 hours ago, Mistress Kang said:
What about using a blindfold that is somewhat see-through? We have a latex hood that has pinholes over the eyes so vision is only slightly obscured. Or covering eyes with mesh or lace. Either of those with dimmed lighting.
Thanks, Ms Kang... don't think i'll be able to deal with the hood, but the lace/mesh blindfold sounds good. Is there anything available at the fortress or shall i shop for something?
Also what do you recommend for shutting out sound ...
On 3/29/2018 at 8:38 PM, GDH94 said:and I had one of those noise-cancelling ear buds on
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On 3/28/2018 at 7:38 PM, Mistress Justine Shankar said:
A few recent sessions reminded me how much I enjoy all forms of sensory deprivation... I love the total vulnerability it induces, feeling your fear and anticipation, the way losing one sense (or more) deliciously heightens the others. The loss of control on your part, the sense of power on mine.
On 3/31/2018 at 7:43 PM, Mistress Alexia Zito said:This is why I enjoy sensory dep. The sub gets to make a choice to be so in their head, so aware of bodily sensations that they can be shaken by play they might consider moderate outside of sensory deprivation...
On 3/30/2018 at 2:02 PM, homefight said:I go back and forth on sensory deprivation. On one hand, I love the idea of the thrill if not knowing what's going on around you or when something is going to happen to you or what it is. On the other hand, I don't want to miss out on the chance of seeing this beautiful Mistress in front of me.
I've been browsing the forums while planning for a session and came across Sensory Deprivation.
The more i consider it as a part of the session, the more it appeals to me. But homefight hit the mark perfectly ..especially about being deprived of seeing my Mistress practicing her craft.
Wondering if there's a "work around" solution
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1 hour ago, Kutta Roddick said:
Hi franknot,
I am glad that you liked the details of the game. Since it was my first time at the Fortress, I did not want to take any chances and wanted to do my best in laying out the details to Ms. Emma so that the mistresses knew my hot buttons. I would say that the overall idea was mine (card game, tasks, etc.). However, I assume that the mistresses improvised the way they felt like. Few examples:
- I had mentioned that the game could start with me being fully clothed, but I was immediately stripped down to my undies!
- I was wearing two pairs of undies, thinking that one would be torn and the other could survive, but neither did!
- Mistresses kept switching the punishment tasks - at times they just forgot what the particular suit represented - even though I knew, I never mustered the courage to correct them - those slaps to sensitive areas were hard enough as it is and I did not want to make them worse!
- Probably the most sinister twist that they inflicted was that they "interpreted" the rules to mean that each domme would administer the punishment one by one, for each card! So, if a 6 of clubs turned up, instead of getting 6 kicks in sensitive areas, I got 12!!!
Ahhh ... Thanks Kutta ..i see things more clearly now. It's good to know that i will be allowed some input with the initial theory and rules.
Of course they'll be quickly disregarded, but it's a starting point and a vague direction. And who doesn't love an occasional surprise.
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On 6/17/2019 at 4:17 PM, Kutta Roddick said:
The theme of the session was a cards (deck of playing cards) game that involved a distinct "punishment" / task for each suit of the card - for every "heart" drawn I was slapped, "spade" meant I was spit on, "club" meant I had to be "clubbed", and "diamond" implied that the mistresses would cut a hole in my underwear to humiliate me.
Kutta,
Thanks for sharing your session with us... not sure why but thoughts of this game and all it could provide has inspired me anew.
I was wondering how much of this theme was pre-planned with Ms. Emma ,... or if the Mistresses just surprised you with the idea of a card game and it's rules when you arrived.
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10 hours ago, Mistress Alexia Zito said:
To answer all of your questions: Yes! We can play the game
. This particular session was one hour. Why would Mistress destroy her own panties for you? Yes to your last question as well.
The panties/underwear part of the game is somewhat confusing ...Could Mistress Emma purchase panties for each of you and let me know how much extra i should put in the tribute envelope?
If you could wear the panties for a little while before the session, hopefully i could be enveloped in your scent while they are on my face... and if they're a little bit soiled, so much the better.
Should i also wear a pair of women's panties ?.. what do you guys suggest?
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On 6/17/2019 at 4:17 PM, Kutta Roddick said:
The theme of the session was a cards (deck of playing cards) game that involved a distinct "punishment" / task for each suit of the card - for every "heart" drawn I was slapped, "spade" meant I was spit on, "club" meant I had to be "clubbed", and "diamond" implied that the mistresses would cut a hole in my underwear to humiliate me. The deal was that the "number / value" on the card dictated how many times the punishment would me meted at each draw. To worsen my predicament, I was asked to draw the first card. The mistresses had made me wear one pair of underwear on my face, and so my vision was restricted. Even until now, I am unsure whether indeed all the cards that were drawn over the next 50 odd minutes had such high "values / numbers" - I mean, I don't remember a single card of value / number being less than an 8 - were the mistresses simply toying with me? Could be! I never mustered the courage to ask. I was just a pathetic slave that was there for their amusement, which was fulfilled by me taking up whatever the mistresses thought of dishing out. When the rules had been explained, I actually thought I still might have my underwear intact by the end of the session, but my wishful thinking was crushed within the first quarter of the session (both pairs of underwear were in tatters by then!). All punishments were accomplished by a cruel dosage of verbal humiliation which kept me trembling until the very end.
Later in the session involved both mistresses mercilessly drenching me and laughing at my pathetic, meek state. Mistress Zito then firmly said - "We are not finished with you yet! Would you drink it from a glass?" I just could not say no as I had no willpower to disappoint them - my mind did not even process the question and try to think whether I would enjoy it or not - I had just been habituated to say "yes" to everything and anything the mistresses commanded by then! It seemed to me that Mistress Fang and Mistress Zito had a playful competition going on between them, as they wanted to go one-up against each other in terms of humiliating and abusing me all along. For example, if I drew a 10 of "clubs" and Mistress Fang slapped me in a sensitive area times, just when I thought I was done, Mistress Zito would make it clear that she would also slap me in a sensitive area 10 times! And so, even though I wished at times that they forget, they mostly always repeated the same punishment twice for each card! Even at the end, when Mistress Zito filled a glass and ordered me to swallow it down in one go, Mistress Fang was quick to repeat the same!
I like this game .. can anyone play?
Was this a one or two hour session? ... Could Mistresses panties be substituted for men's underwear ?... could being hosed down be substituted for drinking from a glass ?
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On 6/11/2019 at 1:05 PM, Mistress Kang said:
She also has a documentary about her life as a dominatrix called Mercy Mistress!
Here is some background on the creation of the videos ...
https://nowthisnews.com/videos/her/mercy-mistress-highlights-queer-asian-americans-on-screen
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21 hours ago, Mistress Kang said:
I've always admired Yin. I remember meeting her in person with you for the first time at a latex party well over a decade ago and feeling "star struck". I've been following her online and she's been very proactive in the BDSM/Queer community. She also has a documentary about her life as a dominatrix called Mercy Mistress!
The videos were very well done.. had to binge-watch all 10...looking forward to the the continuing story.
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On 6/11/2019 at 3:37 AM, fistluvr said:
Here is a nice article about Yin
she was my first and even recommended Jessy to me since I was interested in play she wasn’t so into that at the time.
https://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/us_5cc09431e4b0764d31dbdaaa
Thanks for recommending the article ... insightful .. along with it's links
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17 hours ago, Dannyboy said:
but never had the urge to fight her
Probably a wise decision ... it would have been a lose-lose ... you couldn't have out punched her and you couldn't run away either.
While on the subject.. both you and i lived through the Mohamed Ali era, but watching the "what's my name" documentary recently on HBO brought a tears to my eyes.
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15 hours ago, Dannyboy said:
I am not up to date on this event. Still struggling through the Triple Crown races and not very successful. I became aware of superior female athletes when I started running long distance races so many years ago. At another period of my life a female co-worker was a national class amateur boxer. We competed in long distance races together and I couldn't beat her at 5k and 5 miles. I never thought of her as a dominatrix though but I felt a sense of confidence that she was a "concealed weapon" in plain sight. I will not mention her name although I doubt that anyone will know who I am talking about. She did have a short professional boxing career.
Dannyboy
I’m not a huge fan of soccer (football?) but became interested in women's soccer in 2015 when my Japanese wife and I watched the championship match between the USA and Japan.
While watching those super-fit, tireless, sweat soaked women, I remember thinking ...what I wouldn't give to be the guy who collected the post game clothing (socks especially) for the laundry.
Dannyboy,.. Now that you mentioned it .. I'm always eager to see a quality women's MMA match, ever since Ronda Rousey raised awareness back in 2010-2015… there’s something extremely arousing about a physically superior woman that you (and she) know could totally dominate you without the need of role-play or games.
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Just a reminder it starts Friday evening ... sooo many strong, aggressive, powerful women to daydream about being dommed by.
Maybe submit your favorites .. curious to see who gets the most votes.
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On 5/22/2019 at 4:13 PM, Mistress Kang said:
I don't always approve every post because I know you'll regret it. I'm like the time machine you didn't know you needed.
And here i thought i was just not clicking "Submit Reply" hard enough.
Are you responsible for the redacted Mueller Report too?
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Dominika Egorova ... Red Sparrow by Jason Matthews
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20 hours ago, Mistress Alexia Zito said:
I’ll answer for ziti.
20 hours ago, Mistress Alexia Zito said:None of these are correct lol
Maybe not... is your favorite pasta baked ziti ??
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On 3/8/2019 at 9:18 PM, JustAGuy said:
Today is International Women's Day! C'mon subbies, remember to spare a thought for some of the remarkable women in our lives, whether they are part of your kinky headspace or not...
This looks interesting if you happen to be near the village with nothing to do... Ghostly Women of Greenwich Village
https://boroughsofthedead.com/tours-for-womens-history-month/
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On 3/9/2019 at 9:17 PM, Mistress Vivienne Fang said:
It should be mandatory to have a woman on top of you in some sort of context on International Women’s Day, be it literally or metaphorically
Carla Lonzi is a somewhat obscure Italian feminist who is worth mention.
Here are just a few of her words ....
We reject as absurd the myth of the new man. The concept of power is the thread which runs throughout man’s thinking, and which is the major consideration in his final choices. The subordination of women follows it around like a shadow. Any vision of the future based on these premises is accordingly false.
The feminist movement is itself the means and the end of any basic transformation of humankind. It needs no future, it makes no distinctions — bourgeoisie, proletariat, race, age, culture, clan or tribe. It comes neither from above nor from below, from the elite or from the base, it needs neither leadership nor organization, neither diffusion nor propaganda. An entirely new word is being put forward by an entirely new subject. It only has to be uttered to be heard. Acting becomes simple and elementary.
There are no goals, there is the present of our here and now. We are the world’s dark past, we are giving shape to the present.
Summer 1977
Carla Lonzi
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14 hours ago, risotto said:
I saw this a while back, and the thing that got me was that absolutely nothing is built in. Anyone with a finished basement could do this, just ordering off the internet. Plus, by the photos, the selection of implements is very limited. Still, the owner apparently has done very well off AirBNB on this house. So, I think there's a lesson there, that there are many people who want to play with BDSM, but need an excuse.
I'd read that AirBNB had to cancel this listing due to pressure from the neighbors.
Guess there are other listings if you look.
I've just renovated and furnished a 1 bdrm. apt. that i had intended to list with AirBNB but can't seem to allow myself to rent it out... maybe i should have put more thought into it's furnishings.
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3 hours ago, Mistress Kang said:
So far... You know what it does for me!!
Just curious.. Would you be able to describe the emotional reactions that you're feeling when seeing a sub in tears in a helpless puddle at you feet?
Is it an incredible high?.. Does it inspire an even more intense punishment?
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16 hours ago, Mistress Kang said:
..doh-on't cry-iy-iy..
Cool ... Didn't think you listened to the oldies..
Or is it just collateral damage from mom & dad?
How is the fetish fortress different from other bdsm places
in Fortress Guest Forum
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Ms. Jin,
I understand that "playing" is a generic term .. and i get that you're passionate about what you do .. but is it always considered "play"?
Do you ever let "serious" or "meaningful" enter into a session?
There's a good reason for my asking, so thanks if you choose to answer.