First BDSM memory :)

[Mistress Amuro]

I'm curious to know how you all got into the lifestyle. Post a memory or something that really pushed you to pursue bdsm

 

I will be generous... as a feisty teen I really enjoyed baiting boys by pretending to be sweet, then completely treating them like dirt and slapping them whenever I could.

[akiravn1]

I'm curious to know how you all got into the lifestyle. Post a memory or something that really pushed you to pursue bdsm

 

I will be generous... as a feisty teen I really enjoyed baiting boys by pretending to be sweet, then completely treating them like dirt and slapping them whenever I could.

 

Mistress Amuro,

 

Your generosity in sharing a teenage memory actually made me think back a little further than what I would have suspected my first BDSM memory was. When I was in the 8th grade and at the age of 13, there was a pretty mean girl in class. She literally pulled chunks of hair from my head, kicked me in the balls on several occasions, decorated my face with her lipstick and put tacks on my seat numerous times. Yet instead of being interested in the girls that had liked me, I was more fascinated by her. Once a few girls surprised her, giving her a dose of her own medicine and I was the one to try and console her. Possibly this set the BDSM wheels in motion.

BTW...I am sure I would have adored you as a feisty teen.

[EdgarAH]

I'm curious to know how you all got into the lifestyle. Post a memory or something that really pushed you to pursue bdsm

 

I will be generous... as a feisty teen I really enjoyed baiting boys by pretending to be sweet, then completely treating them like dirt and slapping them whenever I could.

 

Thanks for sharing the mental image, mAmuro. What "pushed" me into trying it was what I believe is a now defunct magazine called Dominant Mystique. There were all kinds of images/ads in there and I just had to try it. It just seemed so frigging cool to have a pretty girl do what she wanted while giving up total control. Then when you add in the trust factor, it becomes a total release.

[Big Trouble Baby]

Mistress Amuro,

 

Your generosity in sharing a teenage memory actually made me think back a little further than what I would have suspected my first BDSM memory was. When I was in the 8th grade and at the age of 13, there was a pretty mean girl in class. She literally pulled chunks of hair from my head, kicked me in the balls on several occasions, decorated my face with her lipstick and put tacks on my seat numerous times. Yet instead of being interested in the girls that had liked me, I was more fascinated by her. Once a few girls surprised her, giving her a dose of her own medicine and I was the one to try and console her. Possibly this set the BDSM wheels in motion.

BTW...I am sure I would have adored you as a feisty teen.

 

 

Did you marry her?

[Stinger]

I saw BDSM at a website, which appealed to me. Then I saw a website with some gross images. But as I saw more I saw Mistresses handling male subs!

 

Then I got very interested in it. Especially websites doing Mistresses handling male subs had me interested totally.

 

So I had seen some websites with Mistresses doing sessions, but their websites and their pictures just were all the same.

 

 

 

I do like the forum as it's shows trust, which I (and everyone) finds important in BDSM.

[Mistress Mina Jung]

I can find hints of bdsm in me from as far back as when I was 5 or 6. I always played with my next door neighbor. He was a year younger than me. We would play with our siblings all kinds of things like house, school, shopping market, etc... But on the days when it would be just me and him playing, I loved to torture or tease him in all different ways. I would demand he show me his "thing" and in return I would show him mine, only I never showed mine. If he tried to refuse, I threatened to tell him mom something bad that he did. Other times, I would have him brush my hair while counting out each brush stroke.

[akiravn1]

Did you marry her?

 

Good point! I tend to think that after her incident, she was either a bit embarrassed or a little bitter that I found her in a vunerable position, as this was never supposed to happen, the shoe always had to be on the other foot. From that day forward, she never tormented me again, however it was like I ceased to exist in her world.

[joey]

I'm curious to know how you all got into the lifestyle. Post a memory or something that really pushed you to pursue bdsm

 

I will be generous... as a feisty teen I really enjoyed baiting boys by pretending to be sweet, then completely treating them like dirt and slapping them whenever I could.

 

in high school i was friends with an ASIAN girl and i would fantasize about kissing and smelling her feet. i also had an ASIAN math teacher and i would fantasize about giving her a nice massage. hot oil on that olive skin. oh, the memories!

[Jeriko13]

My first exposure to BDSM happened when I discovered my Dad's porn at a pretty young age. For some reason, the pictures or stories in the magazines appealed to me more than the more vanilla aspects of it. I didn't do much to explore the area during high school, but during college did more of a light reciprocal aspect with my hookups. It wasn't until early 2006 that I fully explored it with Mistress Kang.

[Milkdud]

I have had many formative experiences beginning in early childhood. One in particular occurred while in a SPED class in elementary school. There was this older girl, forth grade, who was hyperactive and loved quarter roy. You might say she had a quarter roy fetish;) I used to tease her and wear quarter roy pants to school. She used to climb under the desk and bite my thigh really hard;) And she would punch me and kiss me. LOL I wonder sometimes what she's doing now. LOL

LW

[Big Trouble Baby]

I would demand he show me his "thing" and in return I would show him mine, only I never showed mine. If he tried to refuse, I threatened to tell him mom something bad that he did. Other times, I would have him brush my hair while counting out each brush stroke.

 

 

You're so mean.

[deanroberts]

I'd always been open to experimenting with the various girlfriends. But, nothing took hold like one evening in my mid-20s. I was at my girlfriend's house, and had to use the bathroom. When I went in, I noticed her sister's panties laying out in the open in the laundry basket. She had just showered. The pervert in me decided to check them out. I noticed how extraordinarily yellowish they were inside. I decided to take a sniff. I didn't expect to be overwhelmed by the sweet, profound, and powerful scent of her piss that sent a shock of awakening to the core of my brain. I pressed it to my face and inhaled as much as I could. I knew then and there, there was no going back.

[Mistress Amuro]

Mistress Amuro,

 

Your generosity in sharing a teenage memory actually made me think back a little further than what I would have suspected my first BDSM memory was. When I was in the 8th grade and at the age of 13, there was a pretty mean girl in class. She literally pulled chunks of hair from my head, kicked me in the balls on several occasions, decorated my face with her lipstick and put tacks on my seat numerous times. Yet instead of being interested in the girls that had liked me, I was more fascinated by her. Once a few girls surprised her, giving her a dose of her own medicine and I was the one to try and console her. Possibly this set the BDSM wheels in motion.

BTW...I am sure I would have adored you as a feisty teen.

 

hahaha i was like that as a child... i was bossy and mean to all my little male playmates... i literally made one eat dirt for me in exchange for a kiss... then when he came to collect his prize i shoved him in the mud and sat on him, lol

[Mistress Mina Jung]

 

You're so mean.

 

Moi? ::wide eyes blinking innocently::

[Mistress Tran]

I'm curious to know how you all got into the lifestyle. Post a memory or something that really pushed you to pursue bdsm

 

I will be generous... as a feisty teen I really enjoyed baiting boys by pretending to be sweet, then completely treating them like dirt and slapping them whenever I could.

 

 

I was a bully.....hate to say it as I dont condone bullying but I was. I had a group of asian girls who I was the "head" of and we pretty much ruled the school. I liked being the boss, telling people what to do, intimidating people, and so forth. I would always get into fights with boys....never backed down to anyone which always got me in trouble. My mother never found out how bad I was because I would always talk my way out of getting punished by the principal and teachers- played the innocent asian girl card. As i got into high-school, my "crew" turned into boys who had crushes on me....I would use that to my advantage. I have always had strong beliefs in regards to control and power (thank you mom for that) and it permeates my who life style. In other words.....its been natural to assert my power over others.

[Big Trouble Baby]

I was a bully.....hate to say it as I dont condone bullying but I was. I had a group of asian girls who I was the "head" of and we pretty much ruled the school. I liked being the boss, telling people what to do, intimidating people, and so forth. I would always get into fights with boys....never backed down to anyone which always got me in trouble. My mother never found out how bad I was because I would always talk my way out of getting punished by the principal and teachers- played the innocent asian girl card. As i got into high-school, my "crew" turned into boys who had crushes on me....I would use that to my advantage. I have always had strong beliefs in regards to control and power (thank you mom for that) and it permeates my who life style. In other words.....its been natural to assert my power over others.

 

 

Mother never found out? I'm telling.

[TrackWarrior]

Mother never found out? I'm telling.

 

I didn't realize this until recently but as a child, 5 or 6 I had severe nose bleeds. I would be rushed to the Doctor, who happened to be an attractive female. She and a nurse would wrap me in sheets with my arms at my sides so I couldn't use them and she would sit on top of me as she chemically cauterized my nose. Talk about painful. Must of had this done a dozen times. After this brutal event she would shower me with kindness. I can still smell her perfume. You think this twisted some wires?? LOL

 

TrackWarrior

[skeech2]

It is interesting to hear about the triggers that lead to a bdsm lifestyle or the fantasy of a bdsm lifestyle. For me, I remember watching re-runs of the Avenger series and getting aroused when Emma Peel would kick the shit out of some bad guys while wearing a leather catsuit. I fantasized about being one of those guys. Also Catwoman played by Julie Newmar was a fantasy trigger.

 

I did not act upon any of these fantasies or urges in my early adult life but started to explore it more when I would travel to major cities like New York and Toronto. The movie "Exit to Eden" from the early 90's was another trigger for me and it made me think that i could make some of these fantasies come true. The internet followed and sucked me in.

 

In the late 90's, I started to travel often to Asia for business and developed a very deep admiration for Asian women. I discovered that there are many diversities within and among the cultures of Asia but one thing that I have found to be consistent is that the women are very passionate, much more so than I was accustomed to. Lucy Liu playing a Dominatrix in the movie "Payback" started me fantasizing about the potency of a dominant and passionate Asian woman. I have not considered sessions with non-asian women since then.

 

If I traveled to New York often, the Fortress ladies would know me well because I would spend a lot of time there working through my long list of fantasy scenarios. The list is still growing thanks to the beautiful ladies at the Fortress.

 

The Fortress was my destiny all along.

[Guest Mistress Kang]

I was a major flirt since elementary school, honing my TD skills LOL I was the new kid coming into my fourth grade class and the two most popular boys in the class (one was the cutest he was Columbian and his mom was a total MILF and the other was the worst trouble maker of the grade it seemed, he was Irish and Polish and his dad bought him cigarettes and let him watch porn, probably the Irish side LOL) were head over heels for me.

I was very conscious that small things like stylish holes in my jeans, strategically placed buttons on my shirt, pretty hair accessories and shiny fruit flavored lip gloss were sure fire ways to get their attention just so I could shoot them down. They got into so much trouble "chasing" me, following me to the water fountain, the bathroom, girls locker room...

We were lined up by size order and I was always towards the back with the tall girls so we all ended up becoming friends. The two boys were more towards the front-middle, for some reason the "book-book" boys were always taller LOL One day during lunchtime I invited the two *little* boys over to sit with us tall girls. One of my BFFs were sitting next to me, she liked to play my game so was reluctant to move over to make room for them.

In front of everyone, I announced that whoever would eat my french fries after I licked them could sit next to me and the loser would have to sit across from me. At first they made a face, I just sat there with a big grin on my face- smug. In an instant they both rushed towards the corner of my lunch tray where I placed several soggy spit covered french fries (EWW!) after I pulled out of my mouth. The rest is history.

 

It's all about Power Play, I started with TD, public humiliation, WAM play (oh I LOOOVE WAM..) and soon moved on to forced femme and more.

[Big Trouble Baby]

It is interesting to hear about the triggers that lead to a bdsm lifestyle or the fantasy of a bdsm lifestyle. For me, I remember watching re-runs of the Avenger series and getting aroused when Emma Peel would kick the shit out of some bad guys while wearing a leather catsuit. I fantasized about being one of those guys. Also Catwoman played by Julie Newmar was a fantasy trigger.

 

I did not act upon any of these fantasies or urges in my early adult life but started to explore it more when I would travel to major cities like New York and Toronto. The movie "Exit to Eden" from the early 90's was another trigger for me and it made me think that i could make some of these fantasies come true. The internet followed and sucked me in.

 

In the late 90's, I started to travel often to Asia for business and developed a very deep admiration for Asian women. I discovered that there are many diversities within and among the cultures of Asia but one thing that I have found to be consistent is that the women are very passionate, much more so than I was accustomed to. Lucy Liu playing a Dominatrix in the movie "Payback" started me fantasizing about the potency of a dominant and passionate Asian woman. I have not considered sessions with non-asian women since then.

 

If I traveled to New York often, the Fortress ladies would know me well because I would spend a lot of time there working through my long list of fantasy scenarios. The list is still growing thanks to the beautiful ladies at the Fortress.

 

The Fortress was my destiny all along.

 

 

Emma Peel? Wow! I wanted her to beat the crap out of me too. Dana Delany was too soft on that guy in Eden. Wouldn't mind Lucy Liu having her way with me.

[forteounce2000]

In front of everyone, I announced that whoever would eat my french fries after I licked them could sit next to me and the loser would have to sit across from me. At first they made a face, I just sat there with a big grin on my face- smug. In an instant they both rushed towards the corner of my lunch tray where I placed several soggy spit covered french fries (EWW!) after I pulled out of my mouth. The rest is history.

 

It's all about Power Play, I started with TD, public humiliation, WAM play (oh I LOOOVE WAM..) and soon moved on to forced femme and more.

Those lucky boys! I bet they savored every morsel of those super tasty JessyFries. Yum!

[Big Trouble Baby]

 

he was Irish and Polish and his dad bought him cigarettes and let him watch porn, probably the Irish side LOL)

 

 

Hey!!! Watch it!

 

Had to look up MILF, BFF, WAM play, and TD. What does TD mean? Couldn't find it.

[Guest Mistress Kang]

he was Irish and Polish and his dad bought him cigarettes and let him watch porn, probably the Irish side LOL)

 

 

Hey!!! Watch it!

 

Had to look up MILF, BFF, WAM play, and TD. What does TD mean? Couldn't find it.

 

 

 

TD? Hahaha...I could tell you but then...

[Big Trouble Baby]

 

 

 

 

TD? Hahaha...I could tell you but then...

 

 

Oh! No! This is cruel and unusual punishment.

[EdgarAH]

In an instant they both rushed towards the corner of my lunch tray where I placed several soggy spit covered french fries (EWW!) after I pulled out of my mouth. The rest is history.

 

It's all about Power Play, I started with TD, public humiliation, WAM play (oh I LOOOVE WAM..) and soon moved on to forced femme and more.

 

I'd eat those fries right now, without a doubt Mistress Kang. By the way, WAM was the one I had to look up (I'm still such a novice). My goodness, that is extremely sexy that these things turn you on. I've always had a thing for the no-holds-barred girls.