Mistress Zhao

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This is the case with cats, too. Animals in general, but not Mistresses. After a proper grooming, we glow like deepsea creatures. I can't wait to have my hair washed by an experienced grooming slave! I am very inspired to continue with my fire spinning. Thank you for the encouragement! As for Mistress memorabilia, I think that's a fantastic idea! I can think of a few t-shirt slogans already

LOL I would only hope it comes with a plaque sporting a lithe, feminine hand smacking an ass. Thanks, joey. Are you a baby kangaroo?

This "rice eater" phenomenon usually occurs in younger people who have yet to learn about all the subtleties of complex Asian women such as myself. I'm sure that there many Asian girls out there who are thrilled and flattered to have their attention, and they can have it. And I doubt you're a fly on shit. Or are you?

So "yellow fever" is basically a modernized version of "orientalism", only more specific I find this statement to be very loaded and interesting: "This extends to stripping entire nations of humanity and leads to many people simply expecting certain actions or behaviors on the world stage as congruent with the behavior of the "other". Racism is a double-edged knife. No, scratch that. It's a ninja star. So many ways to cut, dehumanize, degrade, antagonize, exploit. Also so many ways to celebrate, honor, embrace (but I suppose it's called patriotism or nationalism in this case). Whatever the chosen term, it's the all too common behavior of humans to divide themselves based on something that could really bring us together, help us build ourselves to be stronger and more united. The truth is, there is no "other". We're all human, we are all connected (energetically) and we all bleed when cut. End of story. Thank you, Cannon Fodder, for bring that to light.

Agreed. It's also a very meditative and gentle way to interact, which is often overlooked when training occurs.

I hope so too! Do you still have your molester mustache?? LOL

Sounds like you have a handle on how it's done. It would be my pleasure to test you out as a hair-brusher. I haven't seen you in a while, and still owe you a picture

I concur. It's also a slave's responsibility to know *how* and *when* to do these things. Sometimes, perhaps a little mind-reading is in order. It gets tiring always having to verbalize every single demand

It's actually not much different than brushing a cat, maybe slightly more complex. Seems like you have the technique down, but the real test is afterward, what my hair would look like. I think it would be worthwhile to see your skills and then see if you need further training. Remember though, that while cats have sharp claws, us Mistresses have not only sharp claws but opposable thumbs with which to wield instruments of pain

LOL sounds like training! I'd be curious to see how you'd fare in grooming training because of your horses

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LOL chips? Enlighten us please, TW!

More so than "Asian fetish", this phenomenon is referred to as "Yellow Fever" and the males who have it "rice eaters" LOLOL I'm not saying it's right or wrong, complementary or derogatory. It's just an obvious trend that appears to have resurfaced at some point congruous with the popularity of manga, anime, and cosplay. This is the second wave that I'm aware of, the first being "Orientalism" when non-Asians were fascinated with all things from The Orient in the early 19th century. The common stereotype isn't necessarily about the submissiveness of females, but the distinctively Asian-ness to our upbringing and lives. We are neat and educated. We have high standards but are modest (ha). We do not model our behavior after the likes of Britney Spears or Paris Hilton, we opt for academia, classical music, and tennis. LOL Have you ever read Tiger Mother by Amy Chua? It's a memoir of the author's upbringing by her typically Chinese mother and how she continues the tradition on her own children in a very self-aware manner. Much controversy was had over that book mainly because most Chinese would never dishonor or exploit their own families like that. I do find some "rice eaters" to be repelling. Even repulsive. That's probably the experience of whomever you overheard. If they see an Asian girl, they're on her like flies to shit. She could be totally fobby or tattooed with green hair. Just as long as she's Asian. It's a trophy mentality and it disgusts me a little to have so little regard for a person's spirit and personality. To see them as an object to be won and possessed. On the other hand, I have also experienced males who find the Asian race of females to be physically attractive, but that's about it. They're not laden with illusions about how we are all actually ninjas, or zen masters, or amazing cooks. It's purely physical so there's room for growth. The important difference is whether one honors an Asian female as an individual or a commodity.

slavedog! I received many compliments on my perfectly brushed hair. Thank you. And I hope you received some fun comments on your green clown eyebrows You were a lot of fun! xx

This is very true. A slave must be thoroughly trained if he's to touch his Mistress's locks. Luckily, I have one of these doll head busts for the uninitiated to practice on.

a whack, eh? just remember that a hairbrush can be quite a painful tool, too!

So you're saying that seeing more s&m and kink referred to on network television isn't mainstream? While I agree with the concept of recycling trends, I think it also evolves and becomes more acceptable to a wider range of audience. The world is expanding, making room for more and more ideas. "Mainstream" as we know it is an amorphous channel for what is current and popular. Since the idea of mainstream keeps changing, so does our capacity to understand ideas that the newer generation sees for the first time and appropriates for further consumption.

It was not until recently that I had a subbie do a superb job on brushing my hair. I realize it may not be much of a masochist's dream to submit to this task, but still an important one on occasion. Especially after a grueling session of much physical labor on my part where I come away with tangles in my tresses. On the other hand, it should be a well-learned task for a true submissive to know how to brush his Mistress's hair. Do any of you puppies know how to accomplish this task to satisfaction? I just LOVE having my hair brushed.

We reward those whom we consider strong, respectful and immaculate. We give them lollipops and dress them up and dance with them. We make drawings for them, play with their hair and bat our lashes at them. Has anyone ever received this treatment?

The hottest accessory this summer is an Asian girlfriend. LOL As for the Jewish man/Asian woman pairing, I can see how that trend would appear. We're both rather pragmatic and frugal about money!