Mistress Zhao

I could only wish that the unclean would smell like lemon. It's a really thin line though. Some clients cannot smell themselves because they have a weak sense of smell (which is more common in males than females). Some do not discern between good and bad hygiene. And thankfully, some have the courtesy to shower beforehand, just in case. Any way a sub presents himself at the beginning of a session is always dealt with accordingly. The ones who soak up humiliation get a face full of creative analogies describing their foul odor. And the ones who may not be aware of their own stink have to suffer quietly through rigorous abuse, wondering what they did wrong. LOL

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there was a word omitted from your statement, so I filled it in for you

Bisa, Good question.. Sometimes, when it comes to a completely new sub, silence can be confusing. I am not sure if you are immensely enjoying yourself, if you are terrified, if you are having an awful time and hate everything that's being done to you, or if you are completely indifferent to everything. Not talking is fine, but vocal cues are very welcome.

Cannon, I see your point in the superficiality of bdsm being a somewhat trendy diversion. But with all things that seem to re-enter their cycle after a period of dormancy, it begins with the superficial and evolves into its incarnation depending on the times. I know for a fact that bdsm has been around since the Romans, perhaps before, but as the psychology of the human mind evolves, so do new ideas and forms. So in its dormancy, bdsm has had time to germinate new ways. Of course many elements will be "borrowed" or simply referenced but not explored. And there is already the "white-washing" of it from its pure form to make it more digestable for the mainstream. It's all well and good, in my zen opinion. Better it be out there, free and somewhat accepted, than lurking underground, mutating in its darkness and festering from lack of exposure. The way I see it, bdsm will never be tossed aside by its true believers and practitioners. While it may be a stylish trend for a moment (like Asians!) it has been around for long enough and is psychologically deep and intricate enough to hold its own with or without the mainstream. And as things progress these days, the mainstream is taking many twists and turns to keep up with all that humanity has to offer. The number of bdsm related classes and workshops out now which are available just about anyone is a good measure of how responsible practitioners are taking matters into their own hands.

Hilarious fill-in-the-blank answers, you grubby pervs. Admittedly, I sniff my own panties, too.

LOL I have 5 saucy steaks with your name on them!

I would love to make my mark on your unmarked ass. Over and over again.

joey, I completely agree with you. Very insightful As the Age of Aquarius comes more fully into being, individuals are being heralded for their sense of well, individuality. Which means that all the freaks can proudly be freaky without fearing judgement and condemnation (in America and Europe, anyway). The fact that bdsm is "coming out of the closet", to quote joey, is a sure sign that we are becoming more comfortable and open with our sexuality and the sexuality of others. Now that homosexuality is less of a taboon in more progressive parts of the world, the next logical step is kink and bdsm. I am so very glad that Rihanna has made it fashionable and not just weird to wear latex. And Devendra Banhart has publically, candidly and sweetly brought about the idea of am s/m relationship in his video, "Foolin'". There is so much more in pop media that makes conceptual reference to bdsm (Ugly Americans, Family Guy, etc) that I am both happy to see become acceptable, but also a little daunted by its superficiality. I really like the idea of the celebrity domme, also. It will be up to us to redefine the idea of what a domina is, for all of those who either have ill-conceived ideas or negative judgements about such an occupation. And I am also really looking forward to more interviews and exposure from alternative lifestyle magazines.

Hi Bubblegirl I really appreciate your query as a part of the many psychological elements of bdsm...cravings and urges. For those of you who are deeply ingrained with a sense of a greater need than just the vanilla orgasm, my heart goes out to the ones who have not the courage to seek it persistently. There are so many parts that can go astray, and not in the good way. It takes courage and determination to really capture that feeling you imagine in your fetish fantasy. Usually after a brutal humiliation session, I feel a gleeful lightness. A cheerful air comes between the sub and me, because we both know that even though it was all play, it felt very real at the time. Most of my subs have expressed that deep satisfaction which comes along with fulfilling an insatiable urge, one that cannot be fulfilled any other way. I hope you find that here, Bubblegirl As for your second question, living out your fetish fantasies will appease and satiate them for a little while, but the question of whether you will ever be completely satisfied is like asking if you will ever want to eat a fat juicy steak after you've just eaten five of them. Perhaps your craving will have been satiated for an expanse of time, or perhaps you'll become a steak junkie and want it for every meal every day, hard to say...but does that urge ever go away completely? Chances are, in a few days after you've digested your steak overload, you'll be ready for the next serving, this time with sauce

Hm... I would liken my stamp to the medieval torture device called the Iron Maiden. Iron Zhao all over your front and back.

I totally relate to your reaction! It makes me a little sad when people have such contrived ideas of something so powerful and deep.

"Property of Mistress Zhao" and nobody has been so deserving yet!

I love the idea of a temporary mark...and especially with the aid of a sharpie. There are so many possibilities! One time at a fetish play party, I brought my trusty sharpie and drew eyebrows and mustaches on as many willing (and some unwilling) players as I could get my hands on. In addition, many of us have office stamps stating "property of Jung" or "owned by Choi" etc. I haven't used mine yet, who will be the first?

I think your exuberance and enthusiasm are enjoyable. One rule of thumb about the Fetish Fortress players; we are a TEAM. Even as individuals, we all work together to make the Fortress what it is. It would be advisable to neither offend any of the mistresses directly, nor plot one against the other in a feeble attempt to stir up drama. So just keep that in mind and you're all good

Hey loser, It was very likely me, you perv. I have always wondered why people stare so boldly at me sometimes, nearly oblivious to that fact that there are nekkid pics of me all over the interwebs. Now I understand. Thanks for the insight. And next time I recognize a perv, I'll be sure to give him (you) my pervalicious glare-stare.

joey, apology accepted you and your overzealous posts!

LOL! It's true, Mistress Ree has a reputation for being caring, but her savvy ways go far beyond "sweet and considerate". I've definitely seen her push her way into a sub's space with only a few whacks and very little persuasion. Oh, Robbie. The trouble you've caused... Keep it up and we my just have to keep you prisoner.