There really isn't much detail to share other than on occasion I will reply to something in a dumb way that results in me getting smacked for it. Not unpleasant for me.
A Song of Ice and Fire (Game of Thrones). The books definitely have more back story and lore. But I prefer the show as it's very well produced and is tighter story telling.
I have had similar fantasies. The aspect of kidnapping scenarios that appeals to me is that extra loss of control. If it could be done right the "victim" couldn't even control when the session begins or ends.