theDumbMule

I suffer from the Kang effect, the Rey effect, the Li effect, the Jin effect, the Von Dietz effect...if i don't suffer from a particular mistress's effect at the Fortress, it's because I haven't had the opportunity to session with them yet. I often wonder what I am missing out on with those I haven't sessioned with but when it comes to sessioning I struggle with do I try someone new for the added experience or do I go back to someone I had a fun experience with? These are the decisions that keep me awake at night. But I totally understand the effect Mistress Kang has on you. She has it on me as well. I only wish I could visit her more often.

This makes me wonder. If we all designated the Fortress mistresses as our Advanced Care Designee, which mistresses would we be safest choosing? Who would "pull the plug" and who would make us hang on for "extra" torture? Which subs would they choose to "off" and who gets to live? It's a bit of a morbid thought but this certainly would take submission to a whole new level. Glad to see you still around and posting Lonewolf!

I think I would actually like to try this. But I doubt I will be back to the Fortress before spring.

I have seen a number of professional disciplinarians offer life coaching services. Most do not consider themselves dommes since most of them just focus on spanking. The spanking they offer is both for fetishes and for resolving past wrongs. But many offer it with life coaching to help reach goals such as quitting bad habits, losing weight, motivation to advance in career etc. My question is has anyone tried life coaching in this manner? Did it work or help in achieving the goal? Did you stop with the service once the goal was achieved? I never tried this but was curious if this was effective or did it just end up as another way to satisfy a fetish on a regular basis.

Me too!

I thought she seemed pretty dominant in the Horrible Bosses movies.

I don't think you can go wrong with anyone, but Mistress Ree and Mistress Kang would know best. They know what each mistress likes and what would match up with you. They are all stunningly attractive in person. A common comment on the forum is their pictures do not do them justice.

I'm surprised at the large number of accusations but not that it is happening. It's hard to balance letting the accused be innocent until proven guilty in the eyes of the public with the rights and courage of the victims to be heard. I don't know that I have found that proper balance yet. As far as enjoying the work that the accused has put out, I usually am able to separate the work from the person who did the work. It's understandable if someone is unable to. But in many cases the work of the accused and that of the victim who we want to support is contained in the same work of entertainment. I recognize that no one is perfect. That does not excuse some of the aweful things people do, but if I avoided all works by people who did something offensive and horrific, I think I would have troubles finding entertainment to watch. Those are my two cents and certainly understand with anyone who disagrees. The whole situation is sad to hear for sure.

Wow, I just hope there aren't any turkeys on this forum. I live in an area where I get to see wild turkeys on a regular basis. I find them interesting to watch especially early in the morning if you ever get the opportunity to scare them out of their roost (up in trees). They make a lot of noise and scare you if you are not expecting it when they fly down to the ground. After this they call to each other to group back together. It's a fascinating thing to watch. Good luck with your turkeys Jayman. Happy Thanksgiving to you, the other subs on this forum, and especially the mistresses that make this forum special!

Don't you mistresses do that anyway when not in session?

I once sessioned with a mother/daughter duo. It played nicely since we did a step mother/daughter role play where I was the unwanted step son/brother. Being younger than both of them made it feel even more real. The actual activities in session weren't real memorable but the role play worked well. They had good chemistry with each other. It was the only time I ever sessioned with someone old enough to be my mother. That wasn't as weird as I thought it might be.

Boxing??

I have seen it and I think I liked more than the 1st one which I also liked. I agree it's slower pace than most sci-fi films (like the 1st one) and it's not for everyone but it is a really good movie.

I think I've seen this view before...Welcome to the Fortress Mistress Jin! It was a pleasure to session with you.