need to serve

Hello UnderPromise, When I went into my first session I was very well aware of my fetish and desire to submit. I have been involved in discussions with others who were not so conscious of what they wanted/desired other than that they wanted to explore. From that exploration, some have evolved from submissive to dominant and dominant to submissive, some are just fetishists or kinky and others have moved on. If something is compelling you to "check it out" and you have the means to do that, why not check it out? My experience has been that when I have made choices solely based on appearance, I have made bad choices. Not always, though most of the time. When I have done research and have identified someone who shares interests with me and that I am also physically attracted to, I have never had a bad session. I may not get a great session, though typically when I do the research I get sessions that range from very good to great.

I find the confinement and helplessness very comforting. It can be a great lesson in trust.

Hello Newman, Take the plunge!! Be clear that it is your first time. Also be clear that you have some masochistic fantasies, but are not aware of your tolerance for such. Many of us have been playing long prior to our 26th birthday.....take the plunge.

I look forward to latex vac bed. Confined in latex....lovely!!!

Some years ago, a Mistress that I was serving regularly handed me a book on foot reflexology and instructed me to read it and learn. While I am not a foot fetishist my desire to be of service has been satisfied through the use of that information. Nowadays it's all available online. Hell instruct a sub to study up, pull out your leash and have at it. A service sub or foot fetishist may very well enjoy the experience.

I would love to hear the reasoning behind this!

Dannyboy, we all read it for the political commentary. It was just kind of an added benefit that they ran classifieds!!!

Thanks onebefore. That is a cool story. Kind of reminds of when I first stumbled on a copy of Screw Magazine and found ads for pro-dommes. I realized that my fantasies were shared by many and that they could be realized.

Wow!!! Did she really knock him out? Or was it Hollywood?

As I was making my way around the city today, I spied the first two leather pant wearers of the season. In the first case I was near the Plaza Hotel. They instantly grab me....I slow down and I look. I see how they form to her curves. They are my favorite color, black and it is apparent that they are quality. They look amazing and my mind moves into kink, fetish, bdsm and submission. The thoughts stay with me for hours. The second sighting on the upper east side is a woman that I would most likely not have had an initial attraction to were it not for her black leather pants hugging her curves and channeling a dominant vibe. I am stopped in my tracks and again my mind goes on a trip....a kinky, submissive trip. It's interesting how we are wired. I guess that the coming of Autumn isn't so bad!!! Any fetish stories to share?

So I was in my first session with a well known Mistress. After some early session warm up, she put a hood on me and told me that She would like to parade me around the studio a little. She had me kiss the receptionists feet, then walked by a couple of other Mistresses who poked and prodded me. She then opened the door to an adjacent dungeon where two Mistresses and two slaves were playing. Other than a play party I had never been exposed to other males in a dungeon setting. At first it was very uncomfortable, but as it became more comfortable things moved from teasings and torturings to forced or highly encouraged slave interactions. It was very stunning and was not on my "fetish list". Years ago when I was a smoker, I was cleaning up after a session. I would push at the base of the scrotum to force out anything that might drip out later. Mistress asked "Can all guys do that?" My reply was "I don't know, I never took a survey!!!" The punishment for the sarcastic reply was that I had to push out some drippings on each cigarette that I had left in the pack. I would smoke the pack over the next day or so.

Has anyone seen/played in the new place yet??? How do you like it??

I exercise a few (3-4) times per week. Mostly cardio. I do not do this as session prep. On a session day, I will do meditation, music and stretching.

Accentuated curves are very exciting. Latex or a tight boot around the calf is lovely.

I do not own any latex. I might like to wear it. I have a very strong fetish.

Hello all, I am new to this forum and this is my first post. I have an incredibly strong and driving latex/leather/pvc fetish. My favorite articles are catsuits, pants, boots and gloves. Black is my preferred color, I suppose because in some ways it is forbidding. So the form fitting latex accentuating the feminine curves (including the calves), coupled with the color black creates for me the great seduction and attraction of the unattainable Goddess.