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Here's a feel-good post that might make you.. feel good. * "Submissive men are the sexiest men alive..." * * "The myths knew it. The painters knew it. The poets who built entire literary traditions around men on their knees for powerful women knew it. It takes a remarkable man to surrender." * https://open.substack.com/pub/mentalsubmission/p/why-submissive-men-are-the-sexiest?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android&r=253sjo

I sometimes will reheat the Italian deli risotto to a nice warm consistency in a microwave ..jus sayin..

Mistress Dalisay.. other than a few pleasurable instances of 'baby-bird-feeding' ..(the spittier, the better).. I'm not familiar with the intricacies of food-play. You seem to be an authority, and quite taken with it, so could you please explain some of the protocols to those of us who have yet to experience it. How is the type and amount of fruit chosen.. who provides it and how? And are there any specific rules of play.. or is it just a random free for all left to the imagination and inspiration of the Mistress?

Point taken... Mistress oder, expelled from any surface or orifice, has been refined and filtered through an intricate internal system producing its unique mind altering delirium. Have at it.

Perhaps you can combine the best of both worlds.. * AI Overview: The durian is widely considered the fruit that smells most like poop, often described as a mix of rotten onions, sewage, smelly gym socks, and feces.

Mistress.. As I was booking my long overdue return visit to the fortress I mentioned to Mistress Ree that while I wasn't familiar with any of the current Dommes, would I be able to meet Mistress Ito because she reminded me so much of Mistress Rey, from my first few fortress sessions in 2018. I now find myself wondering if Mistress Kang and Mistress Ree have ever mentioned Mistress Rey to you? She too was a student of shibari and, as I recall, left the fortress for a while to study in Japan. Every once in a while the Universe will wink at me .. ; ) * Stay safe and well.. hope to see you on your return.

Hey Ford.. tell Her you're Johnnie Walker. Based on Her desired intensity you can become Red or Black and Blue.

As I mentioned up top.. it's the percentages ..of how much or how little you identify with a given activity or response.. that are telling. And mine seemed to be pretty much on target. The labels are meaningless.. the only one I've ever identified with has been 'submissive-male'

Quiz #1 with a partner results were pretty much the same for me... Me: Mannequin / Submissive leaning / Rope Bunny - Puppet - Property My Ideal Partner: The Steward / switch (not sure about why the switch aspect.. might be because the partner format is confusing to answer).

I think about this particular kink .. all the time. You probably didn't notice but I had brought some dark chocolates to our session with the remote hope that you'd taste a few and 'baby-bird-feed' your chirping sub. 😞

As it should be Mistress..

Worship from afar ..as always.

The Dommes get all the cool titles. I skipped the 1st quiz and found my archetype with the sub-type quiz .. But the BDSM quiz seems much more interesting/revealing so I'm gonna go back and compare. It might not be 100% accurate but it sounds like it hits pretty close now that a Mistress has taken a look.

The reference is... that was in response to risotto's post

You might have to go before Judge Kang to have this conviction reversed. *btw.. just how tall is a mini-sadist?

Sunday is IWD 2026

Hmm.. curious.. I wonder how they would rate you and Ford Ranger? I've been away for quite a while, but you guys are regulars and who would know your sub-psyche better than them?

Yeah.. my rope bunny is 75% & puppet is 68%.. so kinda balanced. The percentages are interesting especially the minus ones. Maybe a general pattern with fortress subs.. restraints and being controlled just feels 'right'. 'birds ‐of‐a-feather?? ;‐)

"What kind of sub are you?" Has anyone else taken this "What kind of sub are you?" survey? Interesting and psychologically on target.. but for me I wish it could factor in age limitations. My type is listed as: 'The Mannequin' Rope Bunny / Puppet https://www.buildyourdynamic.com/

Hi Mistress Kang.. Just wondering if you had any feedback on the use of the violet wand rosebud sound attachment? When you say " a few " does that mean they're available in different diameters? Thanks

* I've had trouble articulating my thoughts while following the back and forth opinions on this topic. * As if in answer to my wrong-headed refusal to be guided by Mistress Lovely's usual no-nonsense brevity, this substack post appeared the other day and in the first sentence addressed my concerns about Punishment v. Discipline. (* from the post) * " In the realm of Femdom relationships, punishment serves as a cornerstone, far beyond mere discipline. Rooted in deep Power Exchange, these dynamics thrive on trust, communication, and mutual fulfillment." * It goes on to very clearly explain the finer points of 'Punishment' within the FemDom dynamic in a logical way... And I was surprised to find how accurately it represented my overall mindset. As for the 'don't deserve' or 'earned' issue the author clearly comes down on the side of 'don't deserve'. * "...delivering a caning “because I can.” This “for no reason” punishment strips away illusions of fairness, absurd assumptions of negotiation possibilities, plunging the sub into subspace— in the dark depth of the headspace of surrender." * https://open.substack.com/pub/nucai/p/the-multifaceted-role-of-punishment?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android&r=253sjo

Mistress.. But isn't it relative? In the right hands both can bring their own beauty and inspiration to a scene.