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Ms. Jin ... thank you for your encouraging response... I started to write to Ms. Emma but quickly found that it's not easy to be brief and also be explicate enough, so some editing will be needed before sending. While "inner demons" sounds sexy and mysterious, i think it's simply a confused uncertainty of my level of submissiveness and how i responded to previous sessions. What i do know for certain is that this need for being controlled and handled,.. and all that it might entail,.. has become increasingly intense.

Hmm .. you seem to be channeling me .. I think i'll need to schedule an appointment with the perceptive Dr. Jin. If i were to send Ms. Emma a brief bio that would allow you to peek inside my troubled D/s psyche ..perhaps you could expand on your thought by injecting some real life guidance into a 2 hour "Therapist Office" scenario.

That's comforting Ms Kang, thankyou... ... And what better place to be advised than on "The Therapist Office" couch in "The Gray Room".

Yes.. of course .. But i guess I didn't state that question very well.. I was wondering if, while just talking before or after the session, if a sub were to confide something personal, .. (that for obvious reasons he's not able to share in his vanilla relationships) .. would Mistress consider giving some serious advice or guidance? Or must she always maintain a safe emotional distance and not allow herself to become involved?

Ms. Jin, I understand that "playing" is a generic term .. and i get that you're passionate about what you do .. but is it always considered "play"? Do you ever let "serious" or "meaningful" enter into a session? There's a good reason for my asking, so thanks if you choose to answer.

But what happens when you're not happy? ... Well yeah, of course , there's that ?.? But what i mean is ... what if you just wake up in a bad or sad mood, or with a migraine? .. Do you take that to the office with you? ...and god help today's clients, regardless of how hard they try to please you. Or are you able to put it aside for a few hours and be your usual professional self?

Lately, the only porn that will consistently arouse me is watching a sub or a slave in restraints being punished with almost any implement... strap, lash, crop, whip and even cane... but i find i'm most affected by the extreme force of the blows and the facial expressions of the Mistress as they are being administered .. Be it hate or caring, anger or joy, amusement or disdain ... sometimes it's undeniably real, and not an act. Watching and reading the face of the Mistress as she works is my greatest turn on. While i have many other kinks i crave restraint and punishment and have experienced quite a few strokes at my last session, but i know i wouldn't be able to endure the severe beatings being administered on porn.

i've always contacted Ms. Emma with questions or problems .. and while there has been a time or two that i would have appreciated her counsel, I never thought to email Ms. Kang directly. It just seemed to me to be somewhat presumptuous. Hope this is not opening a door to a sticky topic.

Thanks for your help and advise with this. I've ordered something inexpensive in a black lace just to see how it will work .. but it looks kinda sissy. (Might have to get some undies to match.)

Thanks, Ms Kang... don't think i'll be able to deal with the hood, but the lace/mesh blindfold sounds good. Is there anything available at the fortress or shall i shop for something? Also what do you recommend for shutting out sound ...

I've been browsing the forums while planning for a session and came across Sensory Deprivation. The more i consider it as a part of the session, the more it appeals to me. But homefight hit the mark perfectly ..especially about being deprived of seeing my Mistress practicing her craft. Wondering if there's a "work around" solution

Ahhh ... Thanks Kutta ..i see things more clearly now. It's good to know that i will be allowed some input with the initial theory and rules. Of course they'll be quickly disregarded, but it's a starting point and a vague direction. And who doesn't love an occasional surprise.

Kutta, Thanks for sharing your session with us... not sure why but thoughts of this game and all it could provide has inspired me anew. I was wondering how much of this theme was pre-planned with Ms. Emma ,... or if the Mistresses just surprised you with the idea of a card game and it's rules when you arrived.

The panties/underwear part of the game is somewhat confusing ...Could Mistress Emma purchase panties for each of you and let me know how much extra i should put in the tribute envelope? If you could wear the panties for a little while before the session, hopefully i could be enveloped in your scent while they are on my face... and if they're a little bit soiled, so much the better. Should i also wear a pair of women's panties ?.. what do you guys suggest?

I like this game .. can anyone play? Was this a one or two hour session? ... Could Mistresses panties be substituted for men's underwear ?... could being hosed down be substituted for drinking from a glass ?

Here is some background on the creation of the videos ... https://nowthisnews.com/videos/her/mercy-mistress-highlights-queer-asian-americans-on-screen

The videos were very well done.. had to binge-watch all 10...looking forward to the the continuing story.

Thanks for recommending the article ... insightful .. along with it's links

Probably a wise decision ... it would have been a lose-lose ... you couldn't have out punched her and you couldn't run away either. While on the subject.. both you and i lived through the Mohamed Ali era, but watching the "what's my name" documentary recently on HBO brought a tears to my eyes.

I’m not a huge fan of soccer (football?) but became interested in women's soccer in 2015 when my Japanese wife and I watched the championship match between the USA and Japan. While watching those super-fit, tireless, sweat soaked women, I remember thinking ...what I wouldn't give to be the guy who collected the post game clothing (socks especially) for the laundry. Dannyboy,.. Now that you mentioned it .. I'm always eager to see a quality women's MMA match, ever since Ronda Rousey raised awareness back in 2010-2015… there’s something extremely arousing about a physically superior woman that you (and she) know could totally dominate you without the need of role-play or games.

Just a reminder it starts Friday evening ... sooo many strong, aggressive, powerful women to daydream about being dommed by. Maybe submit your favorites .. curious to see who gets the most votes.

And here i thought i was just not clicking "Submit Reply" hard enough. Are you responsible for the redacted Mueller Report too?

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