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Thanks for the link. I'm not that into movies in general but I've recently watched 'Baby Girl'.. it was okay and I stayed with it to the end, but I'm not interested in male domination, as i suspect most of these are. It would great if someone could edit this list down to FemDom only.

Maybe not a good idea..?.. Then Mistress will be denied the pleasure of feasting on your sudden fear and desperation. Missing will be the electricity generated when her well laid trap slams shut on her unsuspecting creature.

Indeed, the sudden surprise is everything!! All I've ever done is list my favorite 'likes' as prominently as possible when requesting a session with a new Domme.. and hope the stars align. Not counting my unexpected face slapping bonanza from Mistress Rey I'm at 2 for 4. * I usually list face spitting & face slapping as one.

My Mystic Mistress, If this means the 8/10 referance was correct it seems I've been totaly captured.. And my greatful responce will be -.-- . ... -- .. ... - .-. . ... ... to your every thought.

1) Stand in front of drink 2) Turn around a take hold of drink 3) Walk backwards until you're standing with your back facing your Mistress with drink in hand 4) Go back and get the coaster you forgot.

Mistress.. You are the Picasso of the mind game.. I stare for hours and still can't seem to grasp what I'm seeing. I think I get being the ..'bringer of snacks'.. It's just a treat for you to chew into a gooey blob and then instruct me to 'Open wide'..??? But the ..'8/10 substack'.. had me tied in knots for hours since the only 8 & 10 I've ever mentioned was about your cock size..?? So the best I could do is this... Aug. 10 - Blessings to all creations, all brothers and sisters as one - : - Creator, it is I. ... which seems too bizarre even for you. So probably defeated again. Perhaps you should preface all your replies with.."Riddle me this... "

Mind games.. There is no downside that I can see. Like crossword puzzles, they help give the brain cells that are still active a reason to stick around ... And the mind is the only viable play-space left for an aging sub whose mind and body has seen better days.. but can barely remember them. After a long absence I found myself returning to the Fortress. I was curious about the new players and intrigued by how Mistress Lovely's condescending superiority could bully her subs with so few words, along with her taunting non sequiturs that, for some reason, I felt compelled to respond to. I had known right away I'd be in over my head but couldn't resist jumping in. Only to be defeated by 'finger-puppets'. I now find myself entangled in one of Mistress Lovely's multi-layered webs.. She has baited me using 3 or 4 separate forum topics to ask vague questions about what I thought about 'this' or 'that' .. pulling me deeper down the rabbit hole to what could become a punishing session disguised as her version of the therapy I'm in desperate need of.. and my curiosity is getting the better of me. So it seems that the only way to see how the 'game' ends is to book the session and hope for the best.

Hey FB ...The closest I've ever come to being blatantly disrespectful was during my first ever fortress session with the stunningly beautiful Mistress Rey. While evaluating her newbie's limits she caught me staring at her and instructed me never to look directly into her eyes. I continued to stare so she instantly slapped my face. I discovered that I really liked it and refused to look down... so she slapped my face 4 or 5 more times with increasing force until common sense took over and I finally submitted. To this day I still enjoy random and unexpected face slapping. Thank you Mistress Rey.

Mistress, I apologise in advance for the length but what you asked is hard to put in just a few words.. and 'the patient/victim would be more than happy to tell you more about his 'nature' face-to-face, or face-to-blindfold, .. as the case may be. While there is a personal file in the 'Institution' library for you to access, he could also email a more detailed psycological history during the booking process to better prepare the 'Therapist' for her pre-treatment interview, and he'd gladly fill in any blanks or answer further questions that the Therapist may have during that mandated incognito interview. If the Therapist feels that time might be a factor she has the discretion to add an additional billable hour to the therapy session. I'll do my best while keeping it as brief and impersonal as possible. * * * The Patient/Victim: I mentioned in passing that I have issues with doubt about my FemDom psyche and perhaps unconsciously my beginnings traumatized me to some extent. That led me to wondering if some form of IFS therapy ..(which you seemed familiar with).. might help me understand what captured me in my early 30's and why it feels that *one wrong decision* resulted in the waste of the next 30 odd years of my life... I suspect that my submissive 'parts' while absolutely sincere may not have been able to exist in harmony with other aspects of my personality. I was introduced to BDSM and FemDom in my 30's long before the internet. So if you didn't know someone in the lifestyle it was only natural for you to believe that you weren't normal.. and either denied it or tried to live with it while keeping your kinky thoughts and behavior hidden and below the radar. I had met someone who overwhelmed me with a sexual curiosity and appetite that I had never imagined existed. So yes, I was stuck below the radar and loved it there. To complicate things further we were both naturally submissive, and while topping wasn't comfortable experimenting with being dominated was always our priority. It ended after 5 years ..(*that one wrong decision*).. never blossoming into its full potential but leaving a deeply permanent impression, and I was left wandering, wondering and searching for years... until finally visiting a ProDom roughly 12 years ago and then finally discovering the Fortress 8 years ago. * * * Your question .. "Mistress Ito touches on a compelling link between the experience of pain and transformation. I’m curious how that sits with you"?... Perhaps her summary says it all... ... Pain. ... Simply pain. There's no mystery, it's just a tangible "Thing" that can inspire or destroy.. In the hands of a skilled Domme a tool that can be held or given to great effect. The pain of kink is more noble than vanilla pain. There's a reason to endure it even when no reason has been given. For me, it's actually more pleasurable when randomly dispensed for no other reason than the whim of a smiling Dominant. I prefer random unexplained punishment/discipline without a reason.. just that my Domme enjoys inflicting it.. seeing 'joy' on her face in the mirror as the strokes land. Especially when intermittent caress and vocal encouragement is offered to make it more meaningful .. and that's where I start wondering about the possibility of 'The Rapture' Mistress Ito mentioned. That pain can, and will, transform a person into a different state is reasonably obvious.. The question is can the pain be harnessed and guided to some extent? If we can learn to let the pain sharpen our senses in the direction of pleasure then Mistress Ito's idea of 'Rapture' is a worthy goal, and the thought of rapture as opposed to 'ordinary' pleasure is reachable. Yes, I think there is a correlation between extreme pain and ecstasy..I may have been close once or twice but never quite achieved 'The Rapture'.. And I love that she describes it as rapture .. that lends it the aura of the spiritual significance that it deserves. And it is what motivates me. I have always used pain as a challenge of my will.. and my will has always been stronger than my physical strength. But what if there's a more refined way?.. The current MABT theory is that if pain can be held and examined long enough it can be shaped into something useful. .. So why not rapture? * Dr. Google had this to say... "Mindful Awareness in Body-Oriented Therapy (MABT) offers the BDSM community a structured approach to enhance interoceptive awareness, emotional regulation, and self-care by focusing on bodily sensations (touch, pain, and breath). Developed to help individuals reconnect with their bodies, MABT helps BDSM practitioners deepen their somatic experience, process intense sensations, and improve self-regulation, promoting healthier, more conscious, and safer play".

Ohh.. wonderful !!.. It's been a while .. but looking forward to revisiting that particular sensation... quite unique as I recall and the wand should offer lots of intensity options. Thank you Mistress.

Yes I have. Some sounds are designed with a connection point on the handle, allowing them to serve as an electrode for electrical nerve stimulation (E-Stim). But now it's more conviente to use one that's compatable with a violet wand ... Metal Violet Wand Electrodes > Rosebud Sound Electrode https://www.violetwands.com/shop/rosebud-sound-electrode/#:~:text=Medical surgical steel Rosebud Sound,this a very popular item.

Mistress.. you had briefly hinted at being somewhat curious about my thoughts on IFS therapy and also if I agreed with some of Mistress Ito's views on pain. Both topics are relatable but seemed too complicated to discuss in a forum setting. I wondered if you might consider a not quite role-play 'Therapy' session that could delve into both while helping me deal with a bit of real time uncertainty.. And while not exactly following your somnophilia theme perhaps something close? * * * You're dressed as an office professional. Your office is in the purple room. We've never met but you have been able to review all the correspondence involving my previous visit to this institution with your colleague M. Ito. As part of this particular therapy I've been instructed to put on a blindfold and lie down on the therapist's couch. A chair is positioned at the head of the couch. There is the sound of a door opening.. closing.. the rustling of clothing.. high heels slowly striking the floor.. and then the unmistakable whisper of stockings as you sit in your chair and cross your legs.. the sound of a pen scribbling note of some kind. The initial interview will be with this unknown woman's disembodied voice which will describe: * The goals of this new therapy (an aggressive hands-on version of MABT). * The details of what might be asked of me to help with achieving those goals, some of which may require being restrained. * Only after I agree to follow all of this stranger's instructions will the blindfold be removed.

The easy answer is a violet wand .. but perhaps a rosebud sound attached to a Tens unit?

I'm enjoying this recent trend of Mistress POV posts that allows the submissive mind a glimpse of the unbreakable thoughts, opinions and expectations of the Dominant mindset. Mistress Dalisay seems to blend a fictional element into what is probably an actual experience to make her point.. while Mistress Ito clearly stated her fact-based opinions for us to ponder. And our resident 'Word-Witch', Mistress Lovely, continues to conjure up clever brews of fictional fantasy to express her real-time thoughts, theories and expectations. What they have in common is the elegant prose and presentation that differs from the usual forum banter, making them all the more powerful. ... Encore ...

Are your kitties going with you? Have a great trip.. Stay safe!!

Before you put the bag back in the cupboard, .. put a thin layer of uncooked rice on a hard floor and have your naked sub stand, walk, kneel or crawl on it. Kind of an appetizer while you're busy giving him his main course.

Coincidentally.. I haven't seen the video, but I recommend a really good FemDom novella to Mistress Ito last week called "A Night at the Silk Dungeon" by M.L. Paige that is avaliable on Amazon... The first chapter is titled 'The Omakase Package' which is the theam of the storyline. Ms. Paige is a talented author who publishes on Substack and has more than 150 inexpensive E-Books available on Amazon... most featuring Asian Dommes. ...*PS..another good FemDom author on Substack is D.F. Blair who has just one very good 200 page novella on Amazon titled "Captive Weekend".. (about 5 dollars).