Dannyboy
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Dear Ms. Kang: I have, among many other peeves, punctuality issues. When someone is late for an appointment or a date it upsets me immensely. Perhaps that can be a pet peeve. It would be very difficult to incorporate that into a session if my Mistress was late unless I wanted her to be intentionally late and then get punished for getting upset with her. Our session years ago with "Tiny Dancer" afforded me the opportunity to give her a fairly strict spanking. She was awful where punctuality was concerned and that was one of the motivating factors in enjoying her punishment. Could a religious rule be equated with a pet peeve? Not for the sake of denigrating the religion but more for the sake of recognizing the control it may have over the follower. I read the writings of a Mistress who had an Orthodox Jew as a client. In the session she placed bacon strips on his back. Certainly the client wanted this in session for whatever reasons personal to him. She didn't make him consume the bacon. I'll see if any other ideas come to the fore. Dannyboy
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Dear Ms. Kang: Far be it from me to try to convince you of anything you don't agree with. It is always the case that the opinions of Dannyboy do not represent the opinions of the Forum host, the Fortress, it's owners, employees, agents and shareholders. I am convinced of your greatness though. Whenever I want to be naughty with my young lady her reply is always "if you want to." Instead of going along with her and being happy I will argue that it's not good enough if she doesn't want to. I will argue that she really wants to but doesn't want to admit that she is as freaky as me. Then it escalates to "I'm not a perverted freak like you, I do it only to make you happy, I want to be normal." Eventually we stop talking to each other and nobody is happy. Insanity is doing the same thing over and over but expecting a different result. I do know about OCD as I live it all the time. Seems i have a choice of being happy or being right. I'll choose right all the time and end up unhappy. Dannyboy
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I can recommend many but no good ones. Sounds like my ex-wife many years ago showing up for the child support check. Dannyboy
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Dear Ms. Kang: Knowing you for some time I would suggest that you have some degree of OCD and idiosyncratic behavior. I do not judge and mostly I enjoy. I am always enraged when I see someone pushing a baby carriage and talking on a cell phone at the same time. My urge is to perform a "citizen's arrest" for child endangerment. I have never done that but often I would say "shame on you." Another thing, when I am waiting for my young lady to show up (in Koreatown) I often look at the most beautiful Asian ladies who come into the cafe and sit nearby. My look "says you are so beautiful and I wish I could get to know you." In my fantasy I hope they are thinking "old degenerate bastard do you think I would give you a moment of my time, except to say go away creep." When my lady shows up I notice the eyes of other old and young degenerate bastards and think "gotcha." Dannyboy
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SW: You are one sick dude. I know you haven't talked about this to your therapist. Anyway, I like popping the bubble wrap and I have pressed all floors on the elevator. One day the security guard told me to cut that shit out. Oh well, someone always wants to ruin it when you're having fun. Dannyboy
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What is your session day ritual?
Dannyboy replied to Mistress Alexia Zito's topic in Fortress Guest Forum
Reflecting a bit I realize I had a tendency to bring my music to a session. In the early years with the Headmistress I would put together a CD with select music on a number of occasions. With Mina Jung, after being assured that I could connect my MP3 player to the audio, meticulously putting together a playlist was a significant part of my pre session activity. Same with Eva Koi. I don't do that anymore. Dannyboy -
What is your session day ritual?
Dannyboy replied to Mistress Alexia Zito's topic in Fortress Guest Forum
Dear Ms. Zito: Over the last 2 decades my sessioning has depended more on opportunism than on ritual. I can't say I ever returned to my desk after a session. I can say that I have left my desk early for a session and arrived home as if I had been at the job all day. Often I sessioned under a cloak of secrecy and relied on my own wits to lead a double life. Mostly I have gone home to continue my vanilla life. Sometimes I have gone to dinner, shopping or hung out with the Mistress after and have even been driven home after on a number of occasions. Lately I am free from the duplicity of a double life but still don't reveal my whereabouts to others when off to and from a session. To my surprise, chapters are still being written in the book of my kinky life. Dannyboy -
Guy: I think I know what "OG" stands for. If you said "OF" then I would understand that to mean "Old Fart." "OG" and "OF" would apply. Thank you. Dear Ms. Zito: My pleasure always. Dannyboy
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Dear Ms. Kang: It takes one to know one. Dannyboy
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Dear Ms. Kang: I may have posted this before. This was with a Japanese Mistress and an Japanese female sub/switch. The sub accused me of abusing her. The Mistress, standing with a riding crop in her hand demanded to know why I took advantage of this innocent young lady. So I looked at her with the most innocent puppy dog eyes and said "she raped me." The Mistress dropped the crop and broke out in spasms of uncontrollable laughter. It took her several minutes to regain her composure and get the role-play back on track. Dannyboy
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Dear Ms. Brinks: I have been aware of this branch of the scene. Never participated, never interested. Your words have images of Sheryl Crow floating in my head to the tune of "Strong Enough." I certainly, at my age and state of infirmity, am not strong enough to be your pony. Years ago, one of my most cherished memories, The Headmistress, Vu and I walked from the West Village to Chinatown. While walking on Mercer Street I carried Vu piggyback for several blocks. This was not an aspect of domination but more the frivolous way we played when in public. I'm sure some of the younger and more robust subs would be happy to carry you on their backs. Whether the hoofs, pony mask, saddle and stirrups would be involved I don't know. Dannyboy
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gene: Not all that serious about its not being a tough speech. My momma waited till I was 5. LOL. The part about "steers and queers" was a direct quote and "skull fucking to death" was another from the Lou Gossett rant. Anyone who has gone through military boot camp, especially when I was young, can remember that kind of indoctrination by the Drill Sergeant or Company Commander very early on in the process. You have to unlearn the emotional dependencies and comforts of home and get with the program. What I didn't like was the statement that "only faggots and sailors are called Lawrence." I would have told him "I don't see any bell-bottoms so you must be a faggot, sir." I did my boot camp at Great Lakes, Illinois, 50 miles north of Chicago and it got pretty cold up there in the winter. On my ship we beat the Marines in boxings matches most of the time. Dannyboy
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gene: What a candy-ass, I got a tougher speech from my mother on the day I was born. LOL Actually some of the rant seems to be copied from the one delivered by Gunnery Sergeant Emil Foley in "An Officer and a Gentleman," played by Lou Gossett, Jr. That was on my mind as a favorite. Oh yes, there are a number of Devotees who are veterans. Dannyboy
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Dear Ms. Zito: Perhaps I never mentioned it to you but I have a stash of my own photos. No names will be mentioned but I sometimes look at a few of them to revive beautiful memories of the past. Dannyboy
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Dear Ms. Zito: Painting with a broad brush, there were a number of factors that dovetailed over a time span of years to a decade or more. In the USA, say after the late 50's, there was sustained economic growth, improvement of working conditions, more disposable income, more leisure time and loosening attitudes about sex and sexual information. There were free speech movements, sexual freedom movements and Court decisions up to the Supreme Court giving more leeway to books with sexual content. There was the incident in New Jersey in 1965 when a dungeon in Newark, NJ, operated by Monique van Cleef was raided by police bringing more attention to the existence of S & M. Swingers magazines proliferated in the 60's and Mistresses advertised and contacts were made my mail. Screw magazine was established including advertisements for houses of prostitution and Mistresses. S & M clubs came into existence and some dungeons opened. The first one that I became aware of was Belle de Jour. Anyone seeking a Mistress could easily, by the 1970's, find one. It was not mainstream then but was available to the masses and easily found through the media. Sex shops operated by that time and many toys considered illegal could now be purchased over the counter. When Giuliani became mayor he did great damage to the sex industry but cleaned up the Times Square area. Mistresses and dungeons differentiated themselves from the prostitution industry by eliminating certain sexual acts and adapting to new rules. That ensured their survival. So the trickling started around the 60's and is now mainstream. The Fortress could not have been conceived without all that happened before the Headmistress was born. Dannyboy
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Dear Ms. Kang: I can't say that it was more exciting then. I suggest, though, that it was available to the elite and not considered to belong to those of ordinary means and station in life. Dannyboy
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Prepare for trouble, Make it double!
Dannyboy replied to AromaLover21's topic in Fortress Guest Forum
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SW: Just a figure of speech. I gave up my sanity a long time ago. Dannyboy
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SW: Geez!!! You could make someone give up fart sniffing for Lent or forever. Dannyboy
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Tom Jones: "She's a Lady." -
AL: This is one practice that I have some experience with. When I first started playing I shunned the thought of gold. Eventually I tried it with a Japanese Mistress over 25 years ago. I was so drunk and she was about to burst. I never saw a woman spurt from sexual play though. Dannyboy
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Excited & Nervous About Meeting Mistress Fang Next Week
Dannyboy replied to Danr's topic in Fortress Guest Forum
I never met her but I'm sure that the Fortress Mistresses can embrace most different interests as if they were their own. Please do confirm and report to us how much you were impressed by the Mistress and the Fortress. Dannyboy -
Permanent Markings. {Tattoo Fetish}
Dannyboy replied to Mistress Von Dietz's topic in Fortress Guest Forum
Perhaps a keychain with the insignia would be the furthest I would go. Maybe a marketing decision by the Headmistress is in order. Dannyboy -
Is it the garment or what's inside of it?