Dannyboy

Phatteus: In general, I don't know that someone can "give" a fetish to another. It would probably take an expert in psychology to discover where each individual's fetishes, if any, originated. By the time a person gets to visit dungeons fetishes have already been formed, if not acted on. You mentioned Ms. Koi who was a great Mistress in my opinion. I shared many sessions with her before she left. She was so special that I would consider challenging my hard limits if she ever asked. In doing that for her I won't necessarily adopt the fetish and bring it to another Mistress. Pleasing a very special Mistress becomes the goal and realizing my own fetishes becomes less important. It think what a Mistress can do in a case like this is to "unlock" the inhibitions one may have and help a sub become more comfortable with those needs that already exist within him. By the way, I can't stand being tickled and the only time it happens is by surprise. The though of being bound for the purpose of tickling is frightening. Dannyboy

I would venture a wild guess and say that a Fortress Mistress has great skills and truly enjoys her work. LOL. Dannyboy

Ray: You remind me of one time when I received an email that my scheduled session with Mina Jung had to be canceled. That happened a few hours before the session was about to begin. The Fortress did make it up to me on a future date. It wasn't a session surprise but more a non-session surprise. On another occasion I received an email from the Fortress asking me if I was going to show up for my scheduled session as they were waiting for me and I was late. Turns out they put me down for a session a week earlier than the actual date. This is not a criticism of course. No dungeon is perfect. All the others are less perfect than the Fortress. Dannyboy

Dear Ms. Kang: I usually feel it the same day. The feeling the next day is often different. Mostly soreness and fatigue. Dannyboy

Dear Ms. Rey: You did a hell of a job in the Steel Room with Ms. Shankar and me. But of course the Pink Room was the locus of my last 2 couples sessions. Dannyboy

I can't add anything of substance to the advice already given. At critical times I have been given sound advice by the Headmistress or booking. That had kept me with the Fortress even after I thought my sessioning days had come to an end. Dannyboy

For me it's not the room but the Mistress. I've sessioned in all the rooms many times and never wished a different room was available. Dannyboy

Dear Ms. Rey: What you wrote should be put in a frame and hung in each room of the Fortress. Beautiful. Dannyboy

One of my impressions upon seeing Ms. Shankar for the first time is repeated here. She looks much better in person than her photos would suggest. Thank you for the review. Dannyboy

Adam: So I did. That session could be a case of competitive domination particularly with regard to NT. I placed my young lady ahead of The Nipple Monster and Mina Jung in that endeavor. Rey destroyed me and my young lady did the same. It was a draw between the Ladies and a major loss to my nipples. Dannyboy

Dear Ms. Li: You were quite the attentive student when I first met you under the tutelage of Ms. Rey. Now you are in the driver's seat and setting your own pace and style. Dannyboy

Rick: Communication is everything. Feel free to discuss your expectations and fears with booking. If you haven't selected a Mistress, booking will match you with one who will work best with you and for you. One point I want to make is that sometimes the fantasy is better than the reality and sometimes the reality is better than the fantasy. You are beginning on a road of self-discovery and your true BDSM self may not yet be known. You are fortunate to have the Fortress as a beginner. One drawback is you won't know how good the Fortress is if you haven't tried the rest. If you start with the Fortress you may never want to leave. Dannyboy

Dear Ms. Brinks: Nice! Enjoy your trip. I've never been there. Please be careful though because judicial caning is practiced in Singapore. i don't know if it applies to women. Perhaps you might administer one yourself as a visiting disciplinarian? Dannyboy

Congrats, who have you seen in California? Dannyboy

Is that why we have dreadlocks? Dannyboy

Congratulations on your first session. Starting at the Fortress is a blessing. You may never want to try another dungeon again. Best wishes, Dannyboy

Lonewolf: Happy birthday. Dannyboy

Dear Ms. Li: There is a historical concept of "Sovereign Immunity." That could easily apply to a Mistress in session. Dannyboy

Jay: I'm not surprised by the slap on the wrist. Judges generally are more lenient with themselves than they are with the people who appear before them. Dannyboy

betty.... Danny???? Hmmmmm!!! To quote Shaggy: "It Wasn't Me." Dannyboy

Dear Ms. Kang: Almost pissed my pants. Lucky I'm wearing depends. Anyway I think this was a clear case of a Judge losing control of his Courtroom. As a serious legal question though I think it could not have been construed to be a binding legal order or judicial consent for such an action. Should the defendant have actually attempted to whip it out, the bailiffs would have removed him from the Courtroom. The Judge should have removed the defendant before things got out of hand (so to speak.) I think the defendant is clearly non compos mentis or possibly one who is gaming the system. A tactic of some hardened criminals is to claim poor representation and attempt to fire their attorneys before trial starts and go pro se. So the guy was either nuts or sly like a fox. The Judge was probably brought up before his superiors because he sank to the level of his antagonist and lost judicial composure. I spent a lot of time in Courts and Courtrooms. Never seen anything like this in real life. Dannyboy

Oh I can remember the Marvelettes who sang "Please Mr. Postman." That was so long ago. It might be updated to "Get Your Ass Over Here Mr. Postman (your PostMistress requires you." Dannyboy

For those of us who have made the Fortress a home away from home you are preaching to the choir. More importantly your message to those who may be sitting on the fence has to have a great impact. Glad you enjoyed your session. I hope your post inspires others to take that leap. Dannyboy