theDumbMule

You actually let me choose during our last session. I had troubles picking it up because of the mittens you placed on me. But I eventually got to pick the flogger you used on me. Thank you Mistress! I’m very grateful 🥹

Id that a good idea?

That probably depends on the activities involved. Going at least 2 is a good idea under any circumstance. I’ve gone as long as 4 hours (not on my first session) and walked out feeling like I’ve been run over by a truck (in a good way of course). If you live close enough where getting back for another session isn’t hard, I would recommend sticking to 2 hours. You can always go back for more if you like it 😉. 2 hours gives enough time to try multiple things without testing your endurance. But if you went longer on your first time, don’t be afraid to communicate how you’re feeling. The mistresses are great at changing things up.

As someone who still has troubles deciding, I throw out my ideas and let the mistresses pick. But I’m also ok if they just go out on their own and subject me to their ideas.

I love having nothing left to worry about

I was almost jealous that you had a favorite sub that wasn’t me. Then I realized he’s just a dummy…PHEW!! We subs are way better than your average dummy 😉.

I don’t have any eloquent stories to share on this topic. But you make my knees weak just bringing the topic up. I do love being that helpless at the hands of someone I trust. It is both torment and comfort in the hands of a trusted domme. I also love the joy of someone who can wield that power for their own amusement.