theDumbMule

I’m jealous of your culinary skills

Now that’s a strong drink

Military Interrogation! Medical play or Pet play?

Yoga pants CBT or nipple torture?

I've been contemplating JustAGuy's question in the "This or That" thread. It has kept me stumped and unable to answer since he posted it. The question is "Brute Force Domination or Seduced into Willing Submission?" What I came up with is I don't think I have a preference so am posting my response here since it seems to be more appropriately answered by me here. I find that when I first meet a domme for the 1st time the "Brute Force" seems to work for most of the role plays I end up doing. But as I get more familiar with a domme (and they with me) the willing submission takes over. 2 of the dommes I have sessioned with the most are MVD and Mistress Kang. Both are absolutely capable of brute force on me and still apply it from time to time. But the 1st time MVD put me in chastity the thought of me resisting at all to her, even in a roleplay that calls for it, has completely disappeared. She knows how to manipulate me completely to her will as she has gotten to know me and just being in her presence makes me desperate to submit. With Mistress Kang the chemistry is different both no less effective. From the 1st time I sessioned with her I felt like I was being dominated by a friend. I am always completely comfortable being vulnerable in her presence. As we have spent more time together it has gotten even more so. It always feels like she is someone I could do "friend" things with (coffee, dinner, movie, games, etc.) but incorporate the kinky things as well with my whole hearted submission. Both of the above cases could be considered "seduced into willing submission", but started with "Brute Force". As I get to know some of the other dommes at the Fortress, my sessions with them also follow a similar pattern.

You could give the mistresses an archery set and they can shoot you while pretending to be Cupid.

False - definitely does not describe me The person below me is a good punching bag

Paddle Tickle Feet or Tickle Ribs

True - if the spanker is enjoying themselves The person below me…likes laughing at me

Chastity Crop or paddle

Boots

I promise to visit in the coming year to take the beating. I will also take my punishment for being late fulfilling this demand.

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Balls

Happy belated Mistress Hadid! Did your birthday wish come true?

I hope you got the job

This probably depends on what I want for a session. Generally, I just want the mistress to be her most natural self. When she’s doing that it is easy to submit. I do tend to lean towards mistresses who can strike a balance between strict and sensuous. But playful and maternal also are great in a session. Any mistress with a good sense of humor always works too.

Thanks for clarifying. I may need classes to help me with identifying butt types.

It didn’t take long to find the pics since they came from the profile pics. But I knew I would have troubles identifying the type and I spent about an hour comparing butts.