theDumbMule

Hmmm…what kind of animal would I be? I’ll have to put deep thought into this one.

Oh no Mistress! I’m only giving you the adoration you deserve. As far as treatment towards me, I gratefully accept whatever comes my way. When it’s given from any of the fine mistresses at the Fortress, I know it’s needed and given with care to make me a better sub. I know even harsh treatment is for my own good. Please mistress, don’t hold back anything you deem appropriate when dealing with me 🙏. It is humbly accepted with my most grateful thanks.

Congratulations on completing your training! 😉

I’m almost afraid to say this as I fear the consequences, but I wonder how one would do at this game if blindfolded

I’m sorry Mistress! I missed my opportunity AGAIN! It is a dream of mine to be put in chastity and go out with the Fortress mistresses on one of their outings. I guess I will have to offer myself up again for punishment this next year for failing again 😞

This question is a bit easier to answer but involves a couple of variables. Bondage puts me in that state almost immediately because I then have no say in the matter so it’s easy to just let go. That works even when it’s my first session with a domme. But having a domme right at the the beginning of a session telling me who I belong to, what to do, and what I am doing wrong puts me in a compliant state quickly where I just let go. Having someone I’ve sessioned with multiple times who knows how to manipulate me puts me in that place almost before the session starts as I already feel in that safe but vulnerable state just knowing she already has control over me. Really this gets to the heart of why I session to begin with. I love the total loss of control, being vulnerable, yet feeling completely safe. It becomes a ride for me where I can just let go.

I’ve been thinking about this question a couple of says now. It’s an interesting question because I don’t view sessions as a source of pressure. Even the more intense ones. For me they’re a place I can let go and just go with it. I have safe worded more as I’ve gotten older and things reach my limits quicker than they used to. But even then I wouldn’t describe my feelings as as pressure as I’m putting myself in the hands of someone I trust. When I don’t have to do the thinking I find the pressure leaves. I don’t even worry about letting the mistress down. If…I mean when that happens I trust that she knows how to handle the situation. It’s very liberating.