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I second Dannyboy's comment. This is just gorgeous, and speaks deeply to my experience of bdsm.

LOL

I hope someone on here knows enough about law to give this the proper, nuanced response it demands! I know nothing of such things, but I can't help assuming he'd still have been in trouble, and it seems doubtful another judge would take it very seriously if he claimed it was the judge's fault/responsibility, no?

God, it's so amazing that Justin Roiland does both of their voices.

It must have seemed all the more mysterious and alluring in the days before everyone had seen cheesy TV ad dominatrixes and the like. Imagine seeing these images before you'd ever seen representation of such a thing... what would you think!? That said, I do still hear a lot of people refer to bdsm only as an oddity they scarcely believe to be real, and even friends of mine familiar with my proclivities often have little imagination for what might go on inside the walls of a dungeon apart from being bound and beaten. (And even when it comes to bondage and corporal punishment, their imagination is often rather limited!)

I'm pretty into these photos. I would like to try this. I could see it being a special kind of meditative space, sitting still and calm while being slowly engulfed. It would be especially nice to be able to watch my mistress's eyes in the mirror as she concentrates on getting the perfect patterns of drips, eventually creating a few big splotches of wax to sink candles into. I would be waiting and hoping to see that her artwork pleases her.

Ooh that's interesting, I've never found it humiliating to be slapped. I wish I could've seen you slap someone back when you were still reticent, so I could compare the form, the body language, the look in your eyes with the way it is now

Mistress Koi used to put her hand over my mouth tightly, telling me to look her in the eyes while she did it, and then she'd give me one good hard slap the moment she let me start catching my breath. She would watch carefully to make sure I maintained eye contact and composure. When I disappointed her she would slap me again a few times, but when my composure pleased her she would smile and very simply say, "Good." Little in this world could make me feel prouder

I just watched that too!! It was so good. Loved the way he busted that guys balls for saying "woman cop."

Hey Giototti, I think it's a pretty common experience, and one to be expected, for all the reasons you shared—plus the fact that Jessy Kang has extremely good taste The Fortress seems only to attract thoughtful, creative, playful women who are also gorgeous and earnestly dominant. What's not to love? When done right, bdsm is an extremely intimate encounter/relationship, and maybe even more intensely so if it's not part of your personality you share with many people outside session. I've had crushes on several mistresses, and I often find myself tossing and turning late at night enveloped in fantasy. For me it mostly adds to the fun, even when it's agonizing. After all, part of the reason I come to the Fortress is for sensational and sensorial agony. I would guess that, over the course of a life, most of us experience different kinds of unrequited or unsatisfied feelings and desires now and then, whether physical, emotional, or whatever the case may be. Session offers a unique space where that kind of feeling can be held and explored. In effect, you're off the hook. You know the limits of the relationship, so you get to experience the nuances of that unfulfilled desire in all its tenseness and intensity, in all its agony, all its yearning. In the Fortress I've learned, for example, that there are some shades of fear that contain trust and comfort; some shades of devotion that contain anger; some shades of desire that contain revulsion. The heightened and yet contained space of session—especially in the Fortress, the space and experience of which are so well designed—allows us to explore so much of the emotional landscape. It's true, of course, that you are a client, and that is an important aspect of the relationship, but that doesn't mean it isn't a relationship. Most relationships have limits and boundaries, but we often neglect to set them clearly in intimate relationships (friendship, romance, sex partners, etc). The way I see it, at least, the Fortress, partly in its limits & boundaries, gives us a chance to savor things we might otherwise not be able to savor, even unfulfilled desire. That's just my experience, of course! And FWIW I didn't find your post strange or ridiculous in the least

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